Kim's Written Testimony

Relationships are difficult. The one between my father and I was no exception. I allowed hurtful words to separate us for six years. Both and he and I were very stubborn and unwilling to reach out. Each felt the other was wrong.

I wrestled so much with God’s commandment of “Honoring Your Father and Mother” since I believed he caused the pain. I also questioned how I could have a real relationship with my Heavenly Father when I didn’t have one with my earthly Father.

I remember sitting at my kitchen table reading the bible and I read Matthew 5:23-24. Jesus’ words tell us to reconcile with our brother before coming to the altar. Then I read Luke 6:41, “Why do you see the speck in your brother’s eye but do not notice the log in your own eye”? I was immediately broken of my pride and stubbornness and I cried for forgiveness and for God to help me mend the relationship. The tears flowed, and I wrote my father a letter asking for his forgiveness and how I missed him.

I had to let go and allow God to handle the situation the way he knew was best. By doing this, my Dad responded like the Father of the Prodigal Son and welcomed me into his arms.

My dad was able to be a part of my life and my daughter’s lives for ten years. He experienced their weddings and the birth of his first great grandson affectionately sharing his name.

In March of 2018, my father passed away while suffering from dementia. I feel so overwhelmed knowing that by listening to Jesus’ words I was able to experience wonderful moments that are now wonderful memories.